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I simply can not understand someone who, when offered help, would rather strain their arthritic shoulders getting something down from a high shelf rather than accept that help. I almost get the feeling that I am considered incompetent, unable to recognize such things as paprika, oregano, or garlic powder. (in clearly marked containers)

I can understand not wanting to ask for help unnecessarily, but refusing help that's offered? Help that would save both time and pain? I don't get it.